One doesnt often come across a woman willing to bare her soul like this friend of my sy sisters
One doesnt often come across a woman willing to bare her soul like this friend of my sy sisters
she looks gorgeous, from all angles...power to the women that realise their assests, n know how to be captured :)
som' real sexy about the curve of a woman's back
Up the bucs!
haai lona maan.
motho o wa itse gore le tlo mo exposa like this. I don't think a ka rata at all.
mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm, haai noooooooooooo maan.
beautiful
One must be comfortable with who they are.
regardless.
1ove
hmm
Beautiful
dido........great shot!
I wonder what happened to the "tits-and-ass-brigade"...
is this image not womanly enough... or is it too womanly for their acuity???
Does their absence/ silence on this image mean that it's (exploitatively) non-lucrative???
I wonder...*
beautiful image indeed. im amazed by the process of child bearing n its hard to think that at some point i was just an embryo. botle ba tlhaho!!!
æ:"tits&ass" draw more pedestrian associations. this, i think brings out the paralysing effect of commitment phobia.
Not too many takers on this one... suffice to say let sleeping dawgs lie... tl tl*
Ante, I think that this pic is the same as seeing, let's say, the Swazi reed dance. The girls are bare breasted but even as a perverted teenager I did not see this in a sexual context.
I think it's human nature to want something because it is rare, hidden in mystery, or prohibited. This picture isn't hinting or suggesting sex it's presenting the epitome of femininity.
Anyway, I guess it's like why guys aren't that turned on by girls who are sexually forceful (for lack of a better word) I mean like chicks who is on you like white on rice. It's in your face. It's not about the challenge not being there really it's just that the desire for something rare, hidden in mystery, or prohibited isn't there.
but that's just my oppinion
IMHO:
I'd imagine that there's a lot that's rare (an uninhibited, unclad pregnant woman); hidden in mystery (the miracle of conception, creation); prohibited (obvious) in this image --- if that was criteria to go by.
I'm intrigued as well that you suggest that this is the epitome of femininity... is this really IT???!!! (I'd love to hear others' views on this).
There generally seems to be respect (and restraint) when discussing images such as this one --- had it been a scantilly clad, full-breasted, male-fantasy-fulfilling lass... 'the phallically obtuse' would have indulged themselves ad nauseam
And the justification would have been that she wants to be appreciated. Everybody wants appreciation... but is crude, vulgar, schoolboy lechery the kind of appreciation anyone would want? Is "chick", for instance, an apt term for a being with such potential as demonstrated in this image?
*just some devilish advocacy*
Jeepers. That's quite a bit. I still stand by what I said though... maybe it is just me.
We can't get pregnant? We'll never share the same connection to our own children that women do? Society really has demeaned child bearing and rearing. I think that's why being a stay at home mother is seen as not being ambitious. Frankly I'll respect the woman who wants to raise her own children a little more over the "Weekend and holiday Mom". Raising a child is the most important job in the world. I challenge anyone who thinks otherwise.
As far as "chick", I mean come on. Are you serious? Why do girls get offended by such trivial colloquialism or slang? We call each other dude. Originally "dude" meant a city person in the country, with strong connotations of ignorance of rural ways. Tell any guy this and then call him dude for the rest of the night and I bet my bottom dollar there'll little if any objections on his part.
Devilish advocacy indeed. I enjoy the convo though.
strange what different views we have.
Nna, naked is naked. Whether it be a butt ugly, fat chick, or some hott mama. It's all naked (different, but the first thing that registers is that the darn woman/man is naked).
I can't really look at this picture without thinking - poor woman, does she know her body is being exposed to all at 75?
I can't help thinking, did she okay any of it.
I can't believe that anyone would have the guts to put a naked picture of somebody they know on the public domain.
She's naked. She's naked. She's naked.
Oh my GHARD!
She's naked.
Put her away, I keep thinking.
This is all too private.
No, no, no I keep thinking.
And nobody else seems to think the same way. So I'm left thinking that there's something wrong with me.
The exhibitor has said nothing.
Is he/she not here? Have you nothing to say?
I would like some answers. Please? Pretty please? Does this woman know that a naked picture of her is being exhibited?
let me jump on the sexism bandwagon for a second to drive my point home.
loymad has a picture up of boys coming down or going up the mountain for initiation purposes.
Isn't it interesting how the woman here is being portrayed - all those who know her will most definitely be able to identify her.
If I bumped into her tomorrow, I'd probably be able to identify. Dare I say, there is less thought given to the exhibition of woman vs man.
The men in the other picture ofcourse can't be identified...
we can't see their 'bits'.
Does this not perhaps bring about the age old debate around how women are portrayed in media (75 does qualify as such).
Perhaps the other question is around representivity on the site (sorry Lebogang).
You know this issue would never have come up had this picture, or this kind of picture been published. But you start noticing the inequalities of it all when such pictures are indeed published by...I may be wrong but I assume Pea is a man.
I remember while editing a mag I help out on, the publisher wanted to use a picture of a woman with her tit exposed in sexual way. He thought it a fun idea. He liked that it would provoke some reaction. He liked the danger of it all.
He failed to understand what it meant for a picture like that to be published.
I wonder if you guys understand it. Do you? Are you conscious of these kinds of things?
I am rarely heavy. But I'm trying to make you see something, you may not adopt it as your own point of entry or whatever - but I would like you to understand why I've gone hectic about this picture.
And yes, like I said, this may be my abnormality...my own discomforts or whatever...but I really don't think so.
If I knew that the woman photographed agreed to be exhibited - only then, would this become art. Until then - its exploitation in my mind.
Ah ---
The t&a (tits and ass) --- I think the reason why this photograph did not provoke a reaction of the t&a is because it does not contain such. It's composition is not suggesting sexuality but femininity (lack of a better word) and motherhood (again, lack of a better word). I think one is forced to look at the photograph in it's entirety and not the 'bits' and pieces of a human form --- I can, (and not assuming I am a curator of anything photographic) say it is a photograph and not a picture --- if that makes sense.
*clears throat
Heartwamer --- I do believe Pea did ask if 'nudity' would be a problem before this photograph was posted/uploaded --- I responded, "there are not rules, as long as no law is being broken." Now, I'd assume your gripe would be 'privacy' --- I am going to assume, that since Pea wrote: "...a woman willing to bare her soul like this friend of my sy sisters" --- I can assume Pea is familiar with the woman photographed --- and thus Pea would not violate "her sisters friends privacy", just n'je --- it is an assumption that the concept of Harmony is being implemented. BUT, invasion of privacy can include a great deal of other photographs --- even loymad's photograph can be viewed as such, even my photographs can be viewed as such --- in fact how many photographs that contain people in them (with or without their faces or 'bits' shown) can the photographer prove that 'the people in the photograph have granted them permission to publicly show the photographs? (but that has been my moral debate, ever since I pressed shutter)
Aside from that --- I do however think this photograph -- and there has been other's like it on 75 before: which contain female subjects, uploaded by male and female 'graphers, some chose to keep them, some removed them. It's up to the discretion of the 'grapher --- has a greater role in the scheme of things ---- I think it's important that it engages us in debate --- in questioning --- I'm from the school of thought that all forms of expression (dare I say, art) should not suggest answers, but beg questions of us.
Er,,, ja/no?
*ANYONE PLEASE CORRECT ME IF IM WRONG.
I remember when 75 was only a couple of weeks old -
the same thing was happening then
(nearly over a year ago - im not sure tho)
- it was about a picture - about a woman (in the picture)
- and about the comments people made.
when that person (the woman in the picture) found out
- i heard she threw a tandtrum - demanding that the
photograph be taken off (and she was wearing all her clothes).
I think probably there was an argument
(between the photographer and the model)
about what made the photography disrespectful
*(lack of better word). I thought that the image was interesting
but she thought otherwise - hence why it was removed.
*CONCLUSION
its always wise to let people know that you are going to put
their pictures in public domain - coz the truth will always come out.
George Gladwin Matsheke
To be or not to be naked? I don't think there is nothing wrong with the nude pic. Won't even recognise if I see her tomorrow, I think she won't find it violating her privacy, she would have not agreed to have the snapshot. Let's all free our minds, I have seen so many vid's of R-Kelly, that *yawns* just taking it all off is kinda boring, this kinda pic's don't make me imganine lots. I say PEA, bring 'em on.
LD: "It's composition is not suggesting sexuality but femininity..." is that not same thing in some respects?
phew, i hope she knows she's on 75 though, she may know and have agreed to her photo being taken, but did she agree to be on this o so public forum? Now that's exposure
Juxtapose: well, ja, but it's that difference you can find in 'sensuality' and 'sexuality' --- although they both refer to the act of being 'aroused' --- they are not the same.
Arggggggggggggg --- I don't know. Pea will respond and tell us whats up.
*hides.
S_83: I remember well the image of the lady that was taken down last year. Context: the subject was captured a le ko party-eng in the middle of a fierce dance move (sika le kheke *I stand to be corrected). Hers was not a “t&a” debate. She was concerned that the photographer had captured what was essentially a “private” moment and made it “public”. This was clearly a lady with opposing “public” and “private” personas (as I’m sure we all have to some extent). Basically, she felt that the image of her a sika le kheke (F7) conflicted with the image she wanted to portray publicly and therefore she felt violated. We can also debate this at length and ask questions such as: “if she didn’t want to be portrayed in that manner, then why was she behaving in such a manner?” Mara intimately (and this speaks to you lebogang), do we conduct our lives as though someone’s watching, likely to capture and publish our every moment? Or do we just live? I don’t know. In this case I was conflicted. I understood how the subject could feel violated. And I also understood the ‘graphers right to publish, whatever her/his motives.
heartwarmer & lebogang: I was struggling with the "willingness" of this subject all of yesterday and couldn't quite put it into words.
Although she may have agreed to allow pea* to publish the shot, the shot itself is not all that personal to me. She's not necessarily communicating directly with us. It's almost as if she was caught in an awkward moment, so no, I don't believe pea's statement that the subject was "willing to bare her soul" (unless there are other shots).
interesting debate. sometimes the basis of the (art?) is that the subject is unaware or at least ignorant of exactly how intrusive the medium can actually be. the subject's ignorance in this regard, mitigates the sense of overwhelming self consciousness that may accompany the shot if say the subject knew... (err...). i feel, as the viewer of this photograph, as if I AM violating some sacrosant space. vouyerism
Jaz --- I disagree --- but before I respond, I'll wait for Pea to respond.
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@ ante - with regards to ur q bout whether the photo potrays the epitome of femininity, id say it does. as a female, i feel hore bearing a child is one of the most beautiful things ever that cant be justified with words. at the end of the day the essence of being female is being able to nurture the life of someone u only feel but have never met and love them unconditionally. so i gues it does.
@ seilatsatsi
does the epitome of femininity not go beyond this? Aren't women much more than child-bearers? What of child-less women (whether they can bear children or not)? Nuns, like the late Mother Teresa --- can they not reach the epitome, as it were?
Perhaps women are epitomised by their love... A mother is not necessarily thus because she has borne offspring... but her "nurturing nature" definitely makes her thus.
What about 'suburban' children reared by child-less "domestics/ nannies"... do those women not epitomise femininity?
I somewhat/ partly agree with you when you say "the essence of being female is being able to nurture...", but with women there's always so much more.
Their love can extend far beyond their wombs*
im probably too late to hop in on the bandwagon, but anyway.
wow, lots of diverse views, very interesting and strong too. lebogang, i like the statement that art should beg questions and not answers. although in some ways i agree that the lady here should be made aware that the pic is on a public domain, some of us may be viewing nakedness with western/christian eyes. over time, the missionaries conquered in making us ashamed of our bodies and therefore removing very important aspects of how we as africans(i speak for us in the south), express our beauty, manhood, culture etc. more so, the long, british dresses that replaced our traditional garb were not suited for our weather. we were seen as savages, heathens when we were, in their eyes, not dressed.
i find christianity in africa quite scary. we've taken what they gave us and ran with it. even if the west itself became more liberal and less focused on the doctrine, we took it full speed ahead and continue to do so. unfortunately, sometimes it is detrimental to who we are.
i guess we are all going to disagree what the pic means and thats ok. pea hasnt responded to what he/she was intending with the image in response to what some people have questioned.
the idea of internet is another issue that we must also take into consideration. if this pic was taken in the 80s perhaps, fewer people would have had the opportunity to view it, and maybe pea wouldnt have been questioned so. would it have made taking the picture ok then? what about his (sorry pea, im assuming youre a man now) viewing? maybe our civil and international laws have not caught up to cyber space, and we are still trying to make sense of its stretch whilst placing our moral, artistic beliefs right in the middle of it.
whatever the case, and if i may, as a woman, i dont think its offensive. furthermore, as an african woman, i still dont think its offensive. shes a very beautiful lady, pregnant or not, captured on film or not. she has placed her arms over certain parts that make me assume that even though shes naked, shes still chosen to hide what she doesnt want us to see, and that still makes her the one who decides above pea.
as a photgraph, its shot well. the black and white add to the effect and the light streaming in from the back adds to the serenity of it all.
as someone who loves taking pics like all of us here, i envy the private and immortalized moment pea shared with her. not necessarily because shes naked, but because she trusted him (or her!!) and his skill in capturing her soul (as pea states).
photographers tend to be despised as leaches and invaders of privacy until we are called to duty. some do invade privacy, and some invade privacy for the good of society, whilst some capture time just for art of it.
in the end, who does this picture belong to? pea or the lady? but thats making it too serious. if she doesnt want her pic on 75, i dont think pea (or any of us) have a committed a crime, but it would be sad that if anyone of us met her and recognized her, would consider shaming her for standing nude for a mere photograph to be taken.
thats what worries me. so what if we see her dressed, she has done nothing wrong, and even if she had (although i cant see how), who are we to judge her, or pea?
@ ante - point taken. let me satit is one of the elements that potrays the epitome of femininity. i don think there is one true aspect that we can say is the ultimate epitome of femininity, i failed to put that point thru.
come to think about it, some women dont nurture at all but there is something that epitomises their femininity. either way i guess it would depend on the individual and the person that they are.
phew.... im sorry i took so long i kinda didnt know that so many comments were left.
where do i start??
first of all i appreciate all the crits, opinions and comments. i cnt really beef with any of your interpretations of the pic but i would like to clarify a few things.
i am female, contrary to sum of your assumptions.... and yes i did get permission to 75 this picture or else i wouldnt have put it up.
having said that im interested if your responses are going to change
Yay --- phew.
I rest my case.
*gloating.
pea: thank you for the upload. debate is always grand.
lebogang: i don't think your gloating is deserved. we still haven't determined other more explicit shots. and by explicit, i mean shots where the figure is directly communicating with the audience; thus baring her soul.
perhaps that also depends on a definition of "baring her soul". she may have agreed to the publication of the shot, yet she still is holding back. her "baring of her soul" is in fact implied.
that was not part of my argument ---- my argument was focused 'permission' and invasion of privacy (which pea proved there wasn't).
*still, resting --- sippin' on crushed grapes.
i never disbuted "permission". i think it's irrelevant really [in this instance].
my point is: although pea states that the subject afforded her persmission of publication [and the subject has] -- the subject's pose & posture do not actually reflect the notion of "soul baring". But! Semantics ...
*trails of
*unrest, wiping spilled wine on 'speedo'.
okay I her that --- but I suppose her 'pose' might reflect doubt in agreeing --- but it makes sense --- she might have wanted to be 'all up on the internets (kwakwakwakwa)' but sceptical at the same time --- hence the pose maybe.
*shouts: "Garson! Bring me another bottle!"
WOW! Atle a e yetsa taba mosadi otsotsing.lol