It is the duty of an uncle, eldest brother or head of the family, to dish out refreshments to those who've come to celebrate with them or help get any ceremony they were hosting going!
Hahahahahaha dig that title dude!!!
It is a frustrating "job" and it demands a lot of patience.....or else,one can lose his cool and finds himself chasing people away...
"Utshwala bamahala buhlanyisa abantu"
(free booze can make people mad....)
I know that very well... Been there, done that...